Saturday, July 22, 2006

Why Are You Still Single?

I took a "Why Are You Still Single?" test at Tickle the other day, and this is my result :


You're single because you don't want to get hurt

Ever heard the expression, "Once bitten, twice shy?" You can probably relate to this, can't you? Your last relationship may have left you a little raw in emotions, and the memories are likely still fresh in your mind. Fresher than you can sometimes believe. With a hurt like that, you're probably not so eager to enter the drama again — and we can't say that we blame you. You may be so afraid of getting hurt that you take things to heart big-time when you're involved with someone — after all, you've been hurt before, why can't it happen again? You also may be guilty of comparing potential mates to your ex who may still constantly loom large in your mind.

But maybe, just maybe, it's time to check your baggage at the door and let a new person into your life with a clean slate. You have a lot to offer someone, but you can't do it when you have one foot firmly planted in the past.


I know it may sound stupid to you but sadly, I gotta agree with my result. Sometimes I feel that I have this so called "Philophobia".

Do you ever feel that when you like a certain someone but then fear and think "If I fall for him, someone will come and take him away from me again" and so I always end up having short relationship...'cos it hurts so bad. You might call me coward, stupid...and you will be right 'cos I am a coward and I dare not go through that phase again.

6 comments:

Sundancer said...

Got the same crap! What a load of bullshit! Ka awih hlawls lo, chuti vak a hurt ka hlauh pawh ka hre lo e a

virgochhas said...

there are people who are capable to love...y'know wat i mean...if u've loved once, u'll be able to fall in love again and again and again...

don't push urself...ur much better off den people in a bumpy relationship...

give it time, and by the time the fright of hurting fades, u will haf a new and totally different story to tell...

:)

best of luck...

illusionaire said...

Love. Its a muthafucker.

Almost Unreal said...

@sundancer...good that its just a crap for you :)
@virgo...thanks
@illusion...hate to admit it but I agree

ligialh said...

Gosh, am really sorry totally mistaken you for somebodyelse, OP told me it was you, am really sorry well anyway how's Mahluii doing? where is she?

Almost Unreal said...

@ligia, thanks for stopping by

Mahlui's fine, she's with Mom. I've posted picture of her daughter here